Frequently Asked Questions
We know navigating loss is overwhelming. Whether you’re facing a recent passing, trying to prepare ahead, or supporting someone who is grieving — you’re not alone. Below are answers to some of the most common questions we receive.
Getting Started
What is Solviah?
Solviah is a digital resource offering free guidance on grief, funeral planning, legal matters, and emotional healing. Our mission is to bring clarity, calm, and comfort during difficult times.
Is Solviah a funeral home?
No. Solviah is not a funeral home and does not provide in-person services. We offer digital resources, guides, and emotional support to help you navigate the process.
Who is Solviah for?
Anyone facing a death or supporting someone who is. Whether you’re making immediate decisions, planning ahead, or grieving a loss, you’ll find help here.
Is this only for people in the U.S.?
Much of our content is designed for U.S. audiences, but many resources are universally helpful regardless of location. We aim to expand region-specific content in the future.
Immediate Next Steps
What do I do right after someone dies?
We have a step-by-step guide in the Immediate Next Steps section. Key first actions include calling a doctor or emergency services, notifying close family, and securing the home.
What if my loved one passed away at home?
You typically need to call emergency services or the attending physician to pronounce death officially. Then, a funeral home or coroner can help transport the body.
How soon do I need to make funeral arrangements?
It’s okay to take a breath. Most funerals take place within 3–10 days after death, but there’s no single right timeline. Begin by contacting a funeral home or reviewing our planning guides.
Funeral Planning
What’s the difference between a funeral, memorial, and celebration of life?
- A funeral usually includes the body and occurs soon after death.
- A memorial typically happens after burial or cremation and doesn’t involve the body.
- A celebration of life focuses on honoring the person in a more personal or joyful way.
How much does a funeral typically cost?
The average cost in the U.S. ranges from $7,000–$12,000. We break down costs and budget-friendly options in our Funeral Planning 101 section.
Can I plan a funeral without a funeral home?
In some areas, yes — especially with home funerals. However, legal regulations vary by state. Check our guides for local considerations.
What if we want a non-traditional or eco-friendly funeral?
We love that. Our Funeral Planning 101 section includes creative options like green burials, ashes-to-tree services, and personalized ceremonies.
Grief & Healing
What is “normal” grief?
There is no one-size-fits-all. Grief can look like sadness, numbness, anger, confusion, or even relief. All are valid. Visit our Grief & Healing section for support.
How do I help a child process grief?
Gently, with patience and honesty. Children often express grief through behavior rather than words. We offer guides and book recommendations for kids of all ages.
What if I’m not crying?
That’s okay. Everyone processes grief differently. Some feel delayed emotions, others feel deeply but quietly. You are not broken.
How long does grief last?
There’s no timeline. Grief shifts over time, but it may never fully “go away.” Healing is not forgetting — it’s learning to carry the love forward.
Legal & Financial Matters
Do I need a lawyer after someone dies?
It depends. If there’s a complex estate, unclear will, or disputes among heirs, a lawyer can help. For simpler estates, our checklist can guide you through the basics.
What is probate?
Probate is the legal process of validating a will and distributing assets. We offer simplified guides to help you understand what to expect.
How do I close bank accounts or handle bills?
We provide a step-by-step checklist in the Legal & Financial section, including contacting banks, cancelling subscriptions, and updating government agencies.
What if I don’t know where to start?
Start with our “Legal & Financial Checklist” — then take it one item at a time. You don’t have to figure it all out today.
Honoring a Life
How can we create a meaningful memorial?
We provide ideas ranging from memory jars and video tributes to tree planting and personalized keepsakes.
Can I write an obituary or eulogy myself?
Yes, and we can help. We have templates, examples, and writing tips to guide you through it.
What are some ways to honor a loved one every year?
Some families light a candle, host a meal, make a donation, or revisit special places. There’s no wrong way to remember someone you love.
For Supporters & Friends
What should I say to someone who is grieving?
Simple, heartfelt words are best. “I’m so sorry,” “I’m here,” and “You’re not alone” go a long way. Avoid clichés or trying to fix the pain.
What can I do that’s actually helpful?
Offer specific help (like “Can I bring dinner Wednesday?”), listen without judgment, and keep checking in after the first few weeks.
I’m scared I’ll say the wrong thing. What should I do?
Just show up. Your presence means more than perfect words. We also offer sample messages you can use or adapt.
Using Solviah
Is all of the content really free?
Yes, the vast majority of our content is free to access. We may earn income through ads or affiliate links, and we may offer optional premium resources in the future.
Can I share your checklists or articles with others?
Absolutely — we encourage it. Just please don’t re-publish the content elsewhere without credit.
Will you offer downloadable templates or services?
Yes! We are currently developing downloadable resources and may introduce optional services or memberships in the future.
Can I donate to support your work?
Yes, and we are deeply grateful. Solviah is not a nonprofit, so donations are not tax-deductible, but they help us keep this work going.
Do you give legal or medical advice?
No. Solviah provides general information and emotional guidance. We are not a law firm, medical provider, or licensed counseling service. Always consult a qualified professional for specific advice.
If you have a question that isn’t answered here, contact us. We’ll do our best to guide you or point you to the right place.
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